A 2020 birthday
This year's birthday celebrations across the board have been muted. Given all four of us are November born, November is a very very special month for the family.. every weekend is a birthday.
The little one had a cupcake candle blowing with just the three of us and her sister joining by Facetime from college.
Jr. was alone in her dorm room the entire day on her birthday and we called her and wished her on video. We will make up for it with a celebration along with her mom's birthday.
My birthday today was a bit more active. Originally I had signed up for a 8AM yoga class in the hot room 9 days in advance.. but last Monday we got news that all indoor classes are cancelled. There was a parking lot yoga class this morning at 10 AM that was taught by Michelle.. she was so inspiring that the 10 of us who did yoga in 50F weather outside gave it all we had. we were sweating.. the jackets came off! They did sing happy birthday to me in class which made my day!
Came home to wear a new T-shirt (courtesy of mom from last Decembers India trip) and had lunch with my two walking buddies. They made it special today. We got some to go food and ate in our backyard. The family also joined in from inside the house. The Bhavikas trip has to wait...
Jr. is back from college this weekend and is in self quarantine. The very fact that she is back under the same roof makes me so happy!
They asked me what I wanted for my birthday and I said "a family portrait". It was promised to me but the little one backed out last minute as she is busy with homework. So we do it next weekend on San's birthday!
We also walked 5 miles in the evening to round up the days activities.. I have been walking 8-12 miles a day this month to get some regular exercise. My walking buddies have made it fun.
There is an african proverb "if you want to walk fast, walk alone. If you want to walk far, walk together!". Even though I walk during the day sometimes while on phone meetings, the same box around the block feels a long longer when walking alone.
One more trip around the sun. I am still in decent shape, thanks to Yoga! The last 10 years of my life have been what they have thanks to a regular yoga practice. Even the walking everyday, the discipline is thanks to yoga.
50F ouside, my mind is telling me to just pull that comforter up a little more and I know deep down that the right thing to do, is to go do the yoga.. and at that split second I make the right call. That is what the yoga has helped me with. When push comes to shove, when there is an internal fight in the head between taking the easy way out vs. rolling up your sleeves and getting things done.. making the right call... that is precious!
I did spend an hour in the afternoon reading Obamas latest book but dozed off. The lunch was too good!
San and kids got me a cake and a candle to celebrate just between the four of us.. Trader Joe's cake is pretty good!
Now, it is time to pull up that comforter and cozy up and read books or get back to work.. because tomorrow is back to work day!
Next weekend we celebrate Sans birthday, my star (Tamil) birthday, my moms birthday (thanks to time difference) and Karthigai deepam.. it is good that we have a long weekend coming to do all that celebrating.. even if it is going to be on zoom!
Hope next year same time, we can go out and meet people and get hugs instead of elbow bumps!
A big thanks to all of you who called or wished me on social media and a heartfelt gratitude to my yoga family!
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