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Happy Valentine's day!
Yes! Here we are again.
This year we got valentines (little sticker thingy's) from both Jr. and the little one. Tons of them. They got a bunch of artwork gifts for each other and for us.
Was in two minds on what to do on Valentine's eve?! The sore throat which left me speechless yesterday finally relented after some powerful antibiotics, cough syrups, non stop Halls and Ricola treatments, not to mention the frequent nocturnal salt water garglings which reverberated through most of Cupertino and the Los Altos Hills.
The original plan was to launch my own Pink Chaddi Campaign by buying San a pair of nice pink Chaddis. Worried that this might spark a Pink Chappal campaign from her, decided against this idea.
Instead the plan is now changed to catching up on work, some light blog reading, blog posting and going to bed early.
If these folks knew about the Pink Chaddi Campaign, they would have made a killing in India. Seriously their stock would have gone through the roof! Looks like they missed the boat. Well, there will always be some Sene or other and some campaign or other that sends Chaddis, aranaikayars, goli soda, thundu beedis, etc. to the Sene's who will promptly open Chaddi, aranaikayar, goli soda, thundu beedi shops and resell the merchandise and make a healthy profit.
If Vaitheeswaran Koil recycles Uppu Milagu(Salt and pepper) packets offered to the god Karthikeya and the Bom Jesus Basilica recycles my candles offered to Jesus, almost sure that the Sene folks in Bangalore will recycle the Pink Chaddis offered to them!
All said and done, one does not need a special day to show ones love to the near and dear ones. To prove that point, we did the usual round of after dinner arguing today!
Mathematically, all this is explained clearly in the Sundar Valentine equation which shows :
Ergo, the love in our family is a constant, at least when measured in and around this time of the year.
Tensions run high at work, home and everywhere in between!
Sometimes I wish American festivals are as simple as the desi ones, where I could come home, take a shower, wear my silk dhoti, sit down while the kids and San watch me.. do something along the lines of
Aachamanam...Achutaya namaha..
Om Boohu, Om Buvaha, Om....
Mamo partha samastha durida kshya dwara sri parameshwata preethyartham .. shube shobane.. svetavaraha kalpe .. Valentines day pink heart poojam karishye!
offer a few flowers, candy, hershey's kisses, pink paper hearts etc. to the photos or idols of cupid, Guy Fawkes, romance novels etc., do an aarati, ogle at madisaar wearing wife and get on with life!
Wouldn't that be nice?!
Just like we go to the local Hindu temple and make our offerings of food, incenseand prayers to the gods on Indian festivals, we will go to the local Temple of capitalists aka Great Mall and offer things to the local godess aka Wife as part of Valentine's festivities and get blessed.
For those of you just celebrating love, a heartfelt happy Valentine's day!
ps. On a purely tangential note, we hope that the purchase of all those candy, hearts, ballons, pajamas, chadddis, flowers, etc. will revive the economy and the market will get its heart pumping again!
pps. Valentine's day may not be a necessity in India, but with the mechanical lifestyle here, it is not a bad idea to devote a day to make people stop, take note and say "I love you!" to those you care about!
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Hype, Hype, More Hype
First, a Belated
"Happy Valentines Day"
to all of you!
To a desi family, Valentine's day is as important as Halloween, President's day or MLK Day. The socio-cultural tie is missing, but the same goes for Republic day or Independence day for most of today's generation for countries which got indendence before their parents were born. In short, we celebrate Valentine's day very seriously!!!! Serious enough to make Mr. Valentine proud!
Thanks to this little custom, and its hidden implications of love, we managed to create a baby six years ago and repeated the feat three years ago. Being an engineer who has a tendency to graph things in his head, I extrapolated the line and was agahst! The next data point on the "Baby as a function of year" graph was 2008!
This thought was still resonating in daddy's head when something happened. A virus hitherto unknown to daddy's body, played havoc with his respiratory system earlier this week. He was pretty much bed ridden, just him and his little virus.
Now this post is more about Valentine's day hype and the cards that were purchased, filled out and sent to all of Jr.'s classmates. I am sure at this point that there is a Hallmark Lobby in Congress!
Valentine cards : US :: Diwali Firecrackers : India
Fun for the kids, but not for the parents and definitely not good for the environment!
Today it was Daddy's day out. Mom and the cousin family decided to get daddy out in the open to get some fresh air! Where else but the new combo Toysrus-Babysrus opening day in San Jose!!
Here are some pictures!
They had a huge discount sale, characters dressed up to greet the kids, freebies at the door....
There was a spiderman also, but the line to take a photo with the spiderman was at least 200 kids strong, so we skipped that photo.
Now for the hype part! Dora decided to go on lunch break just as our kids got their photo-op turn. We had to wait for 30 minutes to take a picture with "Dora the explorer" and as people in the head of the line, tell all passers by that the line was for "Dora". Toysrus should have paid us for being their informers!
The funny thing was that Dora was pretty much blind and a helper walked Dora to her designated spot! The kids were all screaming and we had less than 30 seconds to take "one picture per family!" and move on so other kids could have their picture taken!
Unfreaking believable! The queue at Thirupathi came to mind!
What we do for our kids happiness!!! The list keeps going...
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